I live in Cornwall. Being of a certain age, instead of hot flushes, I have hourly urges to dash to Fife to be with my daughter, son-in-law and their rapidly growing bundle of girl-gorgeousness and blue-eyed chuckling chap. I'd like to provide random chats on nothing very important/deep significance (delete where approriate), drinking hot chocolate, cleaning, ironing,dog walking, hugs......Other flushes take me to Reading to drink coffee and discuss deep and random nothingness with my son (no cleaning/dogwalking required; hugs obligatory). As the philosophers say 'Absence makes the heart grow even more paranoid than it was when they were tiny.' Otherwise I am wife/daughter/history specialist/author..........and generally bimbling along happily.